Big-kid clause

Heard

big-kid clause · /bɪɡ kɪd klɔːz/ · noun · heard in UK, ES, MX

Said by a family, logged as spoken. Terms Famdom coins to name an observed behaviour carry the label Coined by Famdom.

The definition

The unwritten rule that lets a younger child watch what the older one watches, on the older one’s terms.

The clause is invoked by the older child, enforced by the younger, rarely noticed by the parent.

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The entry

Heard as
“You can watch mine, but I pick the episode.” Girl, 11, to her brother, 6. Manchester, week 2.
First logged
Week 2 · Manchester · household 07. Then in 19 of 40 households across six markets.
In a sentence
The big-kid clause is why the six-year-old knows every character in a show rated 12.
Why it matters
Age ratings describe the buyer. The big-kid clause describes the audience. Plan for both.
Not to be confused with
Hand me down feed Remote custody The babies test
Origin
Heard. First said by an eleven-year-old in Manchester, week 2, then in 19 households across six markets. Not coined by Famdom.
Where it shows up
Debrief 04 The sibling is the algorithm

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  • Debrief · 12 min

    The sibling is the algorithm.

    How older brothers and sisters decide what younger children watch, want and keep.

    Read the debrief

  • Signal · 2 min

    In six of ten households the youngest picks the screen and the oldest pays for it.

    Screen choice and screen payment sit with different people in the same house.

    Read the signal

The worksheet

Take the check into the room.

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Questions about this piece

What is the big-kid clause?
The big-kid clause is the unwritten rule that lets a younger child watch what the older one watches. Once the older sibling has been allowed something, the household rarely re-litigates it for the next child, so the first permission sets the rule for everyone after. Famdom heard it first in Manchester, then in 19 of 40 households across six markets.
Why does the big-kid clause matter to a brand?
Because the first child is the gatekeeper for the second. Whatever earns a place with the older sibling travels down the family without a new decision, and whatever is refused for the older child is refused by default. Relevance to the big kid is the way to the whole household.
How is a LexZicon term decoded?
Each entry records how the term was heard, where it was first logged, a sentence in which a family used it, why it matters and its origin: heard in homes, decoded by Famdom or coined by Famdom. The entry links to terms it should not be confused with, so the dictionary reads as one language.